Only I Can Say

Your first step brings so much joy to me

This is the first sign that you can do things by your own

I am happy and also scared when you start to walk

What if you fall, what if you cry

Only I can say it’s part of your GROWING


When you first entered the school

I am so worried you will not like it

What if you fail, what if you cry

Only I can say it’s part of your FOUNDATION


When you succeed to enter college

I am so proud and grateful

I am frightened of who is around you

What if there is pressure, what if there is stress

Only I can say it’s for your FUTURE


When you finally became an adult

I am so blessed you grew up a good person

I am scared what life will brings in you

What if there is too much risk, what if you are depress

Only I can say it’s part of LIFE


When you settle down

I am so happy you made it perfect

I am not scared anymore

You grew up strong


Now that I am old

I love looking at you

I am not scared when I am no longer with you

Only I can say I gave you EVERYTHING that I could

I LOVE YOU my child.




How I wish in life

Caution is visible


If that is the case

We are able to lessen bad experiences, failure, heart pain, rejection, break-ups, sadness, and many more……


If CAUTION in life is visible…..

CAUTION Wrong Person

CAUTION He is a Player

CAUTION He is a User

CAUTION He is Immature

CAUTION He is Lazy

CAUTION He is Abusive

CAUTION He is a Playboy

CAUTION He will Hurt You


CAUTION Failure Ahead


CAUTION Accident Ahead

CAUTION Bad Influence

CAUTION Not Real Friend

CAUTION High Interest Rate

CAUTION Bad Place to Work


In life, sometimes we are blind

CAUTION is visible but we tend to ignore

We choose to take the risk

And set aside the CAUTION

We have the power to choose


Good morning 🙂



Gay Friends Rock

The other night I was with rocking gay friends, they do really rock! They rock my world for a while hahahaha. Until we realized it was so late and my son was with me! I went home bringing all the joy with me from our laughter, stories, teasing and eating of course.

Seriously, what I am saying is that gay men friend added value into our lives. When I am with them, laughter is nonstop! We all know that laughter is the best medicine, so when we are stress and feeling so down call them and let them ruin your world …este rock your world! Lol. Promise, your momentum will immediately shift into nonstop laughter and full of joy, as in LOL!

I would say gay men are the best. They have all the emotional ability of a woman, while having the same kind of power that we ladies are trying to succeed in relationship. They are like wonder woman, and I admire them all. I know they are not perfect and in reality no body is perfect. I just think that gay men make the best friends for any female. I love them as a friends because:

Less drama – yes, as I observed, they are very straight forward, they are no non sense, just get to the point.

They are clean – all gays that I know are clean. When it comes to hygiene it is non-negotiable.

They say like it is – they are going to tell you straight up what they want to say. Whether it’s a compliment or a critics.

They are not afraid to show their emotions.

Most especially, they like boys! Not to mention, we have fun talking about boys from beginning till the end. lol

They love to talk about relationship, and we have nothing to worry about being embarrassed, or out of place or being judged about anything we revealed.

They are the easiest person to talk because they doesn’t care even if you are disorder, they are just there to make you smile.

Having a gay friend is like having a best girlfriend; they are always up for anything and is always there to support you.

Don’t hide, be proud.

Good night 🙂


I Followed You

I followed you

I chased you

But not in the street

Neither behind you


I followed you online

I checked on you every minute, every day

WhatsApp on you?

Your update is the start of my day


I followed you

I keep on checking what’s on your mind

What are you doing?

Where are you?

Are you lonely, hungry, happy or away?

I want to know


I followed you

Any thoughts of you, makes my day complete

When nothing new

I’m incomplete

Tempted to message you to tell I am waiting for your post


I followed you

Because I like you

Your photos brings curiosity in me

Your views influenced me a lot

You are great

You are fascinating


I followed you

To thank you

For influencing my life

More positive

More happiness

More understanding


I followed you

And will follow you forever….

……………………I hope you don’t mind

……………………………………….I followed you.

🙂 xoxo



Our happiness is important as anyone else’s, I think we need to ensure that we set some limits on other’s demand.


Our whole life doesn’t have to take care or pleasing other people’s expectation or demand. Let’s not feel guilty or irresponsible if we refuse to do something for them or if we say no to them.


We have the right to disagree and we have the right to say no.

Preserve something for ourselves. Taking care of our self is entirely important nowadays, I am not saying be selfish and do not care for the others. Let’s just put our self-first in our own lives. Means we take care of our self so we can be there for everyone else. To be good to others we need to take care of our own needs first, which many of us forget it or let’s say not a priority.


Best example are mothers, being a mother is one of the most difficult role in this planet. Mother usually missed to take care of themselves, but in reality they need to preserve for themselves to be more beneficial, caring, loving and full of energy to support her kids and the whole family.


How can we care of others if we don’t care of our self first.


Self preservation is like when we go on an airplane, is putting on our air mask first, so we can the help those around us.

We are more valuable if we value our self first. We are more loving if we love our self first. 


My Short Hair

When I cut several inches of my hair last year, I was feeling self-conscious about my new hairdo. “I have a 50/50 feeling that it doesn’t suit my face. I look like a guy and they will think I’m a boy:)

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But I’ve found out there are lots of guy who’ve been into short haired chicks! When I’ve changed my profile photos on linkedin & facebook I’ve got a lot of compliments and more fan and followers online. Surprisingly, guys likes my new look 🙂 . So fear not to shorthaired! I actually maintained it for almost a year now and I’m loving it.

There are guys melting with short haired but there are more into traditional long haired girls. So it is actually depending on the guy’s preferences, I am not saying all of them likes it but in my experience mostly they like my short hair. They said it suits my personality very well.

Few reasons I’ve gathered from my inbox are:

It shows confidence – that I had that courage to cut my hair short. Honestly, pixie cut is frightening and traumatic experience, but I just felt of doing it for a change. And when I’m getting positive feedback I became more confident with it.

I’m different – that I stand out when grouped with ladies – all of them have similarities-long straight or curly while I’m pixie!

Its New look – a big change to my appearance; I look younger. It’s like reinventing myself – and reinvention is sexy.

It emphasises my beautiful features – face, eyes, hair line, neck and any stuff attached to it. “That having a short hair, you definitely has a gorgeous face and must be really pretty” 🙂

From the feedback, I would say I will keep my hair short but I would maybe change style from time to time.

Have you ever tried short hair? Have you ever wanted to but been too afraid?

Goodnight xoxo


My Husband is Getting Married!





She is now………….




Sorry my dear friend, my descriptions are over I know, if I’m hurting you by calling you this way, I don’t care! That is my intention, to hurt you! By doing this I’m hoping that you will wake up and realize that you need to be strong, stronger for your children. JUMP OUT soon before it’s too late! Remember the “Boiling Frog Syndrome” get out as soon as you can!

Posted by Loreli Perez on Sunday, February 26, 2017

Your husband is getting married, so be it. He is filing a divorce because that is the requirement to marry her pregnant girlfriend and he is not listening to you. You have no option I guess, take care of yourself, look after your children, demand for support and move on.

It’s time to go!

I’m so carried away here, I have no words to add…..I’m speechless, unbelievable scenario but it’s real. Let me stop from here and come back when I have further to say.

Whewww 🙂