Have you ever experienced talking to your husband and it seems you are talking to a wind? No response, no attention, not even a look. A friend of mine is in this f… hell situation, she was even threatened to divorce for so many times and not giving her cash to spend with. He is not staying home but rather stayed with another girl regularly and just come home to see their kids. When she is talking to him he is always angry and irritated to the point of shouting at her. She just gave birth to their second baby and I don’t think this kind of situation is healthy for her. She needs to have a break and get out of this daily unwanted scenario, who knows if this will lead her to postnatal depression.
Postnatal or PPD – Postpartum depression is a type of mood disorder associated with childbirth. Symptoms may include extreme sadness, low energy, anxiety, changes in sleeping or eating patterns, crying episodes, and irritability.
I called her a furniture wife because it is so obvious that her husband is not ready to lose her. He is just threatening her to leave her since she is not capable of bringing up the kids. She is not financially capable, no work, no career. Her career is her husband, a career that let her suffer every minute of her life and gives her pain running through all cells of her body. She is like a furniture that is standing inside the house with no voice, no rights and no choice but should be ready whenever he wants to use her.
If there is no respect definitely love is not present at all, so why stay!!! Get out of the situation with caution. This time kids are involved and the majority of decisions will always be for the sake of the kids. Only RESPECT for herself will be the best weapon to use to move on. Sometimes people are not respecting us because we ourselves don’t. She needs to be strong for her kids, kaliwali the husband! Live for your children. Start to make a way of getting out of that hell. Only her and no one else can do that for her.
So ladies, please do take care of yourself, your health your beauty and build a career! We never know when this similar situation will strike us at least we are ready and we can stand alone without him. Huwgot !!! lol